tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3688495175860924615.post7066692860826099885..comments2021-11-08T02:23:38.913-06:00Comments on A Perfect Luv: I'm feeling so specialA. Perfecthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16128533018469716353noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3688495175860924615.post-15837879655106727632010-10-01T14:46:21.391-05:002010-10-01T14:46:21.391-05:00I have to weigh in on going out. I do a good amoun...I have to weigh in on going out. I do a good amount of thinking, and too much blog obsessing at home, but private or partial dressing does not seems to satisfy (wrong word, but here it comes..) my requirements. All the way, or not at all seems my way.<br /><br />The great outdoors, amongst Jane and John Doe is the environment I love. Fulfilling beyond words, and still a daunting, liberating thing to do.<br /><br />I am fortunate to live in a city big enough for a reasonable cloak of anonymity, or perhaps indifference to my delights.<br /><br />Thanks for asking ..Petra Bellejambeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15325233285694315036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3688495175860924615.post-39327876302999607102010-10-01T14:23:47.460-05:002010-10-01T14:23:47.460-05:00Halloween in Holland is totally not about dressing...Halloween in Holland is totally not about dressing up. For that purpose we have carnival, well at least in the catholic parts of our Lowlands; being raised protestant I never allowed myself to use that opportunity.<br /><br />These days I manage to go out dressed androgenic with a dear friend occasionally and she is mildly disappointed when, due to logistic unfavorable circumstances, that is not up to the max, which means under dressing, flaring clothes, jewelry and make-up. In that case I’m more than disappointed but at the same time looking forward to our next date.<br /><br />CorinnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3688495175860924615.post-11574761792364688012010-10-01T11:37:52.791-05:002010-10-01T11:37:52.791-05:00Vote three for dream at home but making progress. ...Vote three for dream at home but making progress. I love my wife more than anything and I cannot simply dismiss her fears that my being caught in a dress would bring 'ruin and embarassment' to our family.<br /><br />I have been out on a few halloweens and also to a few 'meetings', but I know that when I am out she is home worrying and that is not really fair. I work long hard hours and I do enjoy my time with my wife and have a hard time justifying going out to a meeting when I could be out with my love.<br /><br />I have made it out several times without her knowledge. Sneaking out makes me feel like a heel ( a dirty ugly low heel...not something high and elegant). I have enjoyed getting out of the house and I find it affirming and mostly fun to get out.<br /><br />In my view the more of us that get out and into the public eye the better it will be for all of us. Of course, my baby steps have been so slow that I will have long passed from this mortal coil before it is fully acceptable for a man in a dress to be out on the street...but progress is being made thanks to folks like you and Penny and your friend 'R'.<br />PatAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3688495175860924615.post-46265129944755425032010-10-01T07:29:31.049-05:002010-10-01T07:29:31.049-05:00Vote two on the 'dreams at home' and lives...Vote two on the 'dreams at home' and lives virtually here column Aeify. Ditto to Leslie Ann's second paragraph. Baby steps have been my pace, and someday it may pay off. Sadly, a wife who is ambushed by these realities is not likely to quickly come to the same place you find yourself. <br /><br />Thanks for letting us travel along your path with Penny!<br /><br />HalleHallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3688495175860924615.post-9482806726243511462010-10-01T02:02:14.961-05:002010-10-01T02:02:14.961-05:00Make that one vote for sitting at home and dreamin...Make that one vote for sitting at home and dreaming. It's not that I'm afraid, at least not in groups. I've been to restaurants a couple times, and driving a few others, and I would love to do more out and abouting. <br /><br />That won't be happening unless I'm prepared to punt on my marriage, because her fear of my bringing ruin and embarrassment to the family outweigh any arguments I could present. I will just have to respect her concerns. Ergo, sitting and dreaming.Leslie Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15373261212549008939noreply@blogger.com